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“The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne, an
Australian television producer, has become a runaway best seller along
with the DVD by the same name. You know something is making a splash
when it manifests in a five-page article in Newsweek magazine.
If you
have not come across this book or DVD, it is about the laws of
attraction and manifestation, which the article correctly points out is
not new and no secret, having been written about many times before by
various authors.
Nevertheless this information is
breaking into the mainstream and that is what is significant about the
phenomenon. In addition to the success of the book and DVD, the Hicks’
books based on the channeling of Abraham have been hugely successful of
late as well. In the original version of the film I saw, Esther Hicks
appeared in the DVD, but was then edited out for some political reason
that I am unaware of.
“The Secret” DVD has been criticized for being overly materialistic and
I have to say that having seen it I was turned off by this aspect as
well. The creators of the DVD say that was to attract the mainstream
and they may be right about the young soul crowd, but it seems like an
opportunity lost to stress manifesting mansions and jewelry over such
timeless treasures as well being, peace, and living in a sustainable
way on our beautiful planet. While the Newsweek article was predictably
critical and demonstrated much ignorance, it did give the spread of
this information a lot of press. No doubt with time the information
will raise much controversy and even be deemed dangerous because of its
emphasis on thoughts creating health over medical treatments and so on.
This of course is predictable as well because younger souls just can’t
grasp the information without distorting it, misunderstanding it, and
finding it threatening. This of course is not their fault.
I do not find the information in “The Secret” to be inaccurate but
simply incomplete and therefore misinforming and even a disservice in
some regards. Let us here look at what is missing. First of all the
material makes no mention of three very important considerations: 1.
The chi, or energy, behind the thoughts that initiate the law of
attraction. 2. Agreements, karma, and deeper essence lessons that take
precedence over the thoughts and desires of false personality (ego). 3.
Soul age and how it affects the law of attraction.
Now let us examine these one by one.
1. The reason that many people become frustrated with the law of
attraction and continue to fail to manifest their hopes is that they
simply don’t have the chi or energy to boost their thoughts into
manifestation. When a person is ill, down, discouraged, or depressed
they are usually also suffering from low chi or low energy. Low energy,
like a low battery, doesn’t have the juice to light up the light bulb,
so darkness prevails. In order to make the law of attraction work for
you, you must have enough chi. Chi is lost through negativity, bad
habits, addictions, worry, bad food, unclean water and air, a sedentary
lifestyle, and too much time spent indoors. This state of low chi then
acts as a vortex for other low chi experiences based on the law of
attraction. Conversely chi is built up by being in nature, hanging
around with high chi people and being in high chi places, constructive
activity, chi gong, yoga, prayer, chanting, meditation, feeling and
expressing love, laughter, play, being grateful, and many other
positively oriented experiences. When the chi is stored in the
reservoirs of the head, heart, and gut, and builds back up to a
critical threshold, there is then enough chi to drive the positive
thoughts and intentions into manifestation. Although this is alluded to
indirectly in the Hicks’ books and “The Secret” they never actually
come out and say it as far as I have been able to tell, so people don’t
get that there is critical work to do in raising the chi. The Abraham
material gives a very good system for moving gradually to more positive
emotions and this indirectly accomplishes raising chi, but there are
other very good ways to do so as well.
When people have life changing experiences that
allow them to manifest more in their lives you will always find that
they found some way to raise their chi and begin storing it for more
effective use. When people are ignorant of this important notion, they
can easily fall into the trap of being impatient with people who have
depleted their chi and are not able to manifest positively. They may
also fall into the trap of blaming poor people or people who are
struggling with their experiences. This is a complete misuse of the
information about the law of attraction, which leads us to our next
point
2. There is no consideration given in these books and films to
agreements, karma, keeping monads, and essence lessons. It assumes that
anyone can manifest anything they want with the right thoughts and
feelings. The only problem is that the ego or false personality is not
the only one in charge of life. Ultimately essence runs the show and
there are many reasons for life conditions that appear to be negative
by the ego’s standards. For example many illnesses have been chosen by
essence to teach certain powerful lessons like compassion,
understanding, patience, and so on. The personality might not like
these conditions and may try to change them, but until the lesson is
learned according to the standards of essence the condition will not go
away no matter how many thoughts are put into substituting health for
illness.
The same is true for agreements. If you, on an essence level, have
agreed to take care of a severely disabled child or difficult elderly
parents, then you will find yourself in the situation until the
agreement has been satisfied according to the wishes of essence and not
ego. If you have agreed to be of service to a community that is very
poor and downtrodden, then you may not manifest your mansion or riches
until your agreement is taken care of. The keeping of monads is
no different in this regard. If you have agreed on an essence level to
learn through a victim victimizer monad, jailer-jailed, or serving an
evil master, then you will probably find yourself going through the
rough experience despite your personalities’ desire to avoid them. Of
course you have free will and if you really want to you can postpone
these agreements, but you are unlikely to by-pass them altogether
because essence learns from human experiences.
Karma, often linked to agreements, is another compelling reason why
everyone is not living a life of extreme wealth, influence, and egoic
power. Some people lose loved ones, have accidents, innocently go to
jail, get sent to war, go to difficult places, and lose their fortunes
not because they have been thinking negatively, but because their
karma, or as Jesus said, their sums, are being balanced. Certainly
Gandhi did not go to jail because he was thinking negative thoughts,
nor did Anwar Saddat, Nelson Mandela, and a host of older souls who
have often experienced very difficult things on their way to greatness.
Now this is not to say that all suffering is worthwhile, nor is it to
say that we should not use the law of attraction to try to manifest the
most fulfilling, outstanding lives we are able. It simply means that we
are not in a position to judge others for their experiences and that we
need not feel like failures and blame ourselves when we have
experiences that are more painful than what our personalities would
want.
3. Now let us consider soul age in light of the law of attraction. This
law applies to everyone alike because it is a universal law, but soul
age does make a difference because of values and because of the nature
of being in different stages of evolution.
Infant souls often have a great deal of chi or energy because they tend
to live outdoors in less polluted environments like the jungle. However
they are also extremely fearful and survival oriented and thus their
experiences are mostly related to these themes, kill or be killed, seek
food and shelter, and live according to superstition. However they are
aware that they can influence such things as weather and other events
through their beliefs no matter how irrational. Their biggest problem
is that they are so afraid of everything and thus they often experience
horrible things because their fear brings about their worst fears. To
some degree this is part of their evolution. Small children do fall
down and skin their knees as part of their experience learned to use
their bodies.
Baby souls, rule oriented people, think that someone else is in charge
of their lives, usually a patriarchal god figure whom they must placate
or suffer terrible consequences. Since they are unable to “be good” for
the duration of their lives, needing to break rules to find out what
happens, they also suffer the terrible consequences that they imagine
will happen to them. However they are quite averse to accepting that
their thoughts and consequent feelings create their reality because
that is too terrifying for a toddler to deal with. They are more prone
to identify themselves as victims of others. Paradoxically they are the
most interested in trying to control everything and everyone so that no
one has too much freedom or is too unique. Everyone must conform,
everyone must believe the same thing, everyone must behave according to
the rules. Since this is ultimately impossible they are doomed to fail
and that is the most terrifying thing of all. Their failure actually
propels their evolution to more mature ways of being as they discover
individuality won’t go away. This was the excellent theme of the film
Pleasantville.
Young Success oriented souls are caught between a rock and hard place.
More than any other type they are aware that thoughts and desires can
influence their reality but they totally identify with ego or false
personality so they think that it is their personality that decides
everything and of course this is not so. They too have an essence that
is helping to direct their reality. Nevertheless young soul essences
usually allow their personalities the indulgence of many of their
desires for lessons sake and they often become famous, wealthy,
attractive, or influential. They just don’t understand what is
happening when they lose everything to the ravages of life, get sick,
and get old, and yes, die like everyone else. What a surprise. Ego is
not in charge of everything.
Mature relationship oriented souls are also often confused about the
nature of the law of attraction. From an early age they often have the
experience that they know things they are not supposed to know or they
can predict events, or even influence reality with their thoughts and
feelings. Yet they also feel like victims of such experiences as
unsuccessful relationships, heartbreak, betrayal, and other difficult
scenarios they don’t feel they are in control of. This is because
mature souls are the ones so often trying to repay karma, keep hard
agreements and monads, and learn challenging lessons. These experiences
are generated by essence and not by personality. Therefore they can’t
quite figure out what they control and what they don’t control and are
often in perpetual confusion until they are in the late levels
approaching being an old soul. But because they glimpse the real
connection between thoughts, feelings, and their reality, they are
quite interested in such methods as the power of positive thinking,
prayer, and inspiration.
Old philosophically oriented souls generally discover before too long
that their thoughts and feelings have a direct relationship upon their
reality and this gives them a big advantage in life over others. Since
what their personality wants is often in alignment with what their
essence has in mind they can become very powerful manifestors. However,
they are just not motivated by big mansions and jewelry for show so
they don’t often impress younger souls as knowing anything worthwhile.
Meanwhile they often use their power to manifest big life tasks such as
influencing a peace process, ending slavery, or supporting poor people
to find a way out of their hopelessness. More than any other type of
people, old souls understand the law of attraction and put it to good
use but they also understand that the law of attraction also applies to
what essence magnetizes and that the personality must bow to these
events and experiences. The more they surrender the more powerful they
become. Now that is indeed a most interesting secret.
There are other considerations regarding the law of attraction as well.
Sometimes human beings rehearse various possibilities in their minds to
see where the possibilities may lead. This is a creative process and in
no way means that the person intends to manifest each possibility. They
fall into the what-if categories and can be classified as problem
solving musings, kind of like sketching different plans for a building
that will be built only one way. The danger of the way “The Secret” and
the Hicks’ books present the information is that it can lead people to
be afraid of their thoughts and suppress the creative wanderings and
sketchings of consciousness. We sometimes need to examine all
angles before deciding on a course of action. Therefore just thoughts
don’t lead to the laws of attraction, it is thoughts and intention that
make the difference. To be fair the Abraham material does speak of the
importance of intent.
So when reading or watching this material keep these things in mind and
it will help to keep the material in perspective. In all fairness to
the authors of these works it is very difficult to address a book or a
film to all soul ages and there is bound to be distortion or
misunderstanding. Whenever an author tries to dumb down material for
younger soul ages to digest there tends to be problems with application
of the information and then there is resulting controversy and attempts
to discredit the information. This is what we face more and more in the
coming ages as the world shifts from a young success oriented
perspective to a mature relationship oriented one. For this main reason
you can understand the polarization that increasingly characterizes the
country and the planet itself. The baby souls will fight desperately to
resist any information about the law of attraction because it makes
them feel terrified that everyone will go off and do whatever they want
and there will be no order whatsoever. Given their understanding of
life and need for control you can then understand why they are so
afraid. The young souls of course will translate everything through
their ego oriented position, refusing to acknowledge essence and this
will give them justification for at times behaving selfishly and using
horrible judgment. Relationship oriented souls will be a little naïve
about what can and cannot be accomplished through the law of attraction
and old souls will try to clarify, teach, and lead by example throwing
much more weight behind essence driven choices and the need to override
at times the endless desires of the false personality.
A happy person has the simple desire to please essence and surrender to
what essence wants. A deeply fulfilled human being manifests a quieter
mind and a quiet mind can listen to essence much more than a monkey
mind. Sometimes the ego needs to be placated by allowing it to have
some of its endless desires such as a new car, a nicer house, or more
money. Being a slave to the rampant desires of ego is not really the
way to go because it always leads to complication and complication
leads us away from the truth, not toward it.
To make it simple the ego, false personality hijacks the intellectual
center regularly and that is how it dictates its endless desires and
resistances. Essence communicates via the heart and uses the brain in
service of the heart so to manifest anything worth having, go deep into
your heart. At times the heart may feel inaccessible, dead, or like a
lump of lead but that is not a reason to avoid it. This is just another
way for the false personality to say, “You see, its no use, why bother,
it’ll never open.” You must persist and the easiest way is to focus on
breathing. Since the lungs wrap around the heart your breath gently
massages it and if you focus on this the heart will eventually soften
and produce a most pleasing sensation. Then you can get to know its
enormous power and it will produce for you essence oriented
manifestations that will truly satisfy you, unlike mansions and jewelry
that if they come will eventually go.
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